Not My Son

Not My Son

NOT MY SON In seminars, I ask parents what their greatest fears are about sex and their kids. Without fail, parents of girls are worried about sexual assault and what they can do to stop their daughter from becoming a victim. And without fail, what I do NOT hear is...
What do you call a woman who has a lot of sex?

What do you call a woman who has a lot of sex?

Or, if you live in our house, MUM. I speak to so many women who left their sexual identity at the threshold of becoming a mother. In our culture it is an insane taboo for a woman to be a mother – AND love sex. And yet, if we are honest, it is exactly what our...
The Two Words that Broke My Heart

The Two Words that Broke My Heart

My son looked up at me, with his huge 2 year old blue eyes,and said, in all sincerity: “NOT TONIGHT” After asking him for a goodnight hug, I felt like my heart had been ripped into tiny little pieces, and I was instantly awash with a hundred replies that...

Labiaplasty: This season’s must have

At 13, the most I had to worry about was weather my bum would squeeze into my acid wash skinny jeans and if I would ever grow enough breast tissue to fill out a crochet triangle bikini with any kind of respect. Along with the usual round of teenage acne, the...

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