Hard work, high maintenance woman…

I am a hard work, high maintenance woman. I am not for everyone, and it takes an incredible person to be with me. I am demanding & challenging. I will test you to your limits. I have high standards. And expectations. By God, do I have expectations. I expect you to...

Why do you waste your time on sex?

I was having dinner with a friend the other night, and she looked at me and said: “You are a smart woman. You could do so much with your life, yet you choose to do the “sex thing”. In light of everything that is happening in the world, happening to women, why on earth...

#MeToo

The #metoo campaign has affected me deeply and I have pushed back hard against adding my voice to this overwhelming tide of hurt. Some of it has been shame, a lot of it has been fear – fear that I will be seen as a victim, fear that my family will be furious,...

Tasty Tantra for One

I am a big fan of self love. For those of you who know me personally, you know I will never shy away from any discussion, especially one involving sex, even sex with myself. My recent studies have allowed me to explore more fully the ancient art of Egyptian Tantra...

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